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What my clients say about me

“With Nick’s guidance and some hard work my life has been completely transformed in much less than six months. His expertise made dating go from terrifying, to fun and easy. The real surprise though was that this new found confidence improved my friendships, career, interactions with strangers, and more. I can’t recommend him enough." KyleLas Vegas, NV

“I met a girl that I really hit it off with, thanks in part to the things I learned from you. We just had a little celebration of our first 6 months! Your advice helped me tremendously on many levels. I feel better socializing, my social circle is more in line with what I want, I work on my self esteem by investing in myself, I determine my own value now instead of letting others do so." DavidBurlington, VT

"Nick helped me be my best self. I went from struggling to find women who I truly connected with, to being the guy in my circle who everyone else calls for advice about their love lives. Let me make this easy for you: if you’re thinking of working with Nick, do it. Your future self (and your next lover and all the people you interact with along the way) will be deeply grateful.” Jason ConnellProfessional Speaker and Coach

"Nick gave me great advice on how to ask out a girl I had been good friends with for a while. We ended up dating for a few very happy years and she is now my fiance! Nick’s advice was what I needed to hear to gain the confidence to man up and be honest with both her and myself. You are amazing at what you do and I hope you continue to help others like you have helped me.” Mark D.Naperville, IL

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How to End a Relationship With Class and Compassion

September 15th, 2019 by Jason Connell 6 Comments

Today’s article on navigating breakups comes from my close friend Jason Connell. Jason is a psychotherapist and meditation teacher in training. He is also a world-class consultant in leadership and professional speaking. He’s always thoughtful and he’s the perfect person to tackle this sensitive subject. — Earlier this year: I’ve failed. In my hand is

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5 Dating Lessons From the Infinite Wisdom of the Band Tool

August 30th, 2019 by Nick Notas 2 Comments

Thirteen years. Thirteen LONG years I’ve been waiting for the next album by the rock band Tool. That day has finally come with their release of Fear Inoculum (Spotify or Apple Music). Tool is infamous for poetic, profound, thought-provoking lyrics around life’s deepest subjects. As ridiculous as it sounds, I owe a lot of my personal

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