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What my clients say about me

“With Nick’s guidance and some hard work my life has been completely transformed in much less than six months. His expertise made dating go from terrifying, to fun and easy. The real surprise though was that this new found confidence improved my friendships, career, interactions with strangers, and more. I can’t recommend him enough." KyleLas Vegas, NV

“I met a girl that I really hit it off with, thanks in part to the things I learned from you. We just had a little celebration of our first 6 months! Your advice helped me tremendously on many levels. I feel better socializing, my social circle is more in line with what I want, I work on my self esteem by investing in myself, I determine my own value now instead of letting others do so." DavidBurlington, VT

"Nick helped me be my best self. I went from struggling to find women who I truly connected with, to being the guy in my circle who everyone else calls for advice about their love lives. Let me make this easy for you: if you’re thinking of working with Nick, do it. Your future self (and your next lover and all the people you interact with along the way) will be deeply grateful.” Jason ConnellProfessional Speaker and Coach

"Nick gave me great advice on how to ask out a girl I had been good friends with for a while. We ended up dating for a few very happy years and she is now my fiance! Nick’s advice was what I needed to hear to gain the confidence to man up and be honest with both her and myself. You are amazing at what you do and I hope you continue to help others like you have helped me.” Mark D.Naperville, IL

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The sparks are here

How to Spark a Connection When There Isn’t One

January 22nd, 2020 by Nick Notas 6 Comments

I’ve heard it time and time again… “We’ve gone on a couple of dates but I still don’t feel any chemistry. We’re just missing that spark, you know?” The spark. The spark. Oh that elusive spark. You can’t put your finger on it…but you KNOW when it’s there and you definitely know when it’s not.

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Lying to yourself

5 Lies You Tell Yourself About Meeting Women

December 11th, 2019 by Nick Notas 3 Comments

Putting yourself out there in new social situations is hard. It’s even harder when you’re putting yourself out there to find new romantic connections. You’re exposing yourself to potential judgement, rejection, and heartbreak. So to protect yourself, it’s natural to tell yourself made-up stories. You think it’s not worth trying or nobody will be interested

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